Cobourg & area
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Counselling for Couples


In addition to couples, clients may be a brother-sister, mother-son, or other twosome or threesome wanting to do counselling together.


Please see also the notes on individual counselling, since a healthy relationship is based on there being two healthy individuals in that relationship.


Individual counselling is incorporated into couples counselling, with the addition of the following:

  • • Partners are assisted in having a conversation together, guided by insights, suggestions and questions from the registered psychotherapist, with special attention to managing emotions and conflict.
  • • Partners choose topics which have become too dangerous to talk about on their own, or they might start out with what’s safe and easy.
  • • The registered psychotherapist helps identify communication patterns needing change, assisting partners with expressing themselves safely and clearly, not just in their words but with body language, tone of voice, etc.
  • • The registered psychotherapist helps the couple develop healthier behaviour and communication patterns, which they can practise in the session and at home. (Homework is critically important! The work a couple does between sessions is even more important than the work they do in the session).
  • • A therapeutic session may include a ‘Thank-you Exchange,’ where partners can highlight the individual and couple strengths in the relationship, giving each other affirmation and encouragement.
  • • The registered psychotherapist and the couple work together as a team. No one is blamed or judged.


Couples counselling is meant to be a healing, insight-filled and positive experience of individual and shared growth.


Nancy Marrocco Counselling • Cobourg, Ontario • Phone 905 396 3489 • E-mail* © Nancy Marrocco 2015-2021
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